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(OOC: I did some googling, checked the regulations and as far as I'm aware this post is PG-13, and it's definitely something that kids should know about, I had most of this taught to me when I was around 10 in terms of explicit content that I talk about)
Kids'll see and be in fights, however, johan and they'll see cleavage and heck, they'll even swear. I knew pretty much every swear-word in the book by the time I was seven and there was only one I didn't ever use (due to it's legendary bad word reputation, and obviously I can't say what it is here) and therefore I think that it's ridiculous to restrict teens from seeing or doing things in a video-game which they can do in almost all other walks of life, unfortunately it seems that we are progressively wrapping our children up in more and more layers of cotton wool in a desperate attempt to protect them from the dangers of the outside world, so we just hide them away from it completely, not realising that they are going to have to join it at some point and the longer we shy away from the topic then the harder it becomes for them when they eventually discover the truth about things in life, also by wrapping them up in cotton wool, you worsen their chances as that'll shape their social understanding which will effect relationships with the majority of the population.
An example of something we used to shy away from that we really shouldn't is things like sex-ed, because the unfortunate truth is that (especially with the people I live with) most of them will have lost their virginity before they reach the age of consent, this being the norm amongst many of them to see who can do it first. Of course therefore if you leave sex-ed training until the age of consent, firstly due to the varying times at which people reach it, by the time you have that lesson, someone in the class could have reached said age and lost their virginity already and the information comes too late, and in an age where rape culture is being progressively stamped out by the increase in laws and teaching to help stop it, it's important to teach people about consent, what it is and why it is important before all these things happen to teenagers, so that they don't end up making mistakes that are easily preventable.
(On a side note, how much the consent seems to have to come from the woman worries me, firstly male rape is a thing that happens and should be taken very seriously and secondly it worries me how you can have someone give consent all the way up to and through the act and yet if they change their minds afterwards and decide they didn't want to, now all they have to do is say that they didn't give consent and you have just raped someone, which is really scary to me and I hope that never happens)
The point that this leads to, however, is that like it or not, teens are going to do things, there is a world out there, filled with wonders and delight and other human beings for them to explore, and they will, whether you like it or not, try as you might you can not stop them, unless you're going to home-school them and lock them in the house, only letting them out under guard on pre-determined visits which only occur when completely necessary (and tbh who's going to do that) then your teenage-son is going to do things. He will discover and learn things about the world, whether it be at parties or over the internet, he will learn things, and if you try and stop him then if he's your average human being, he'll just try harder (psychologically proven that we don't like being told what we can and can't do) and the fallout will be even worse because if you then do try and advise him, he'll just ignore you. So instead, we ought to talk about these things, talk about life and educate children to what is out there, because if you go it alone, it's a big scary world, but if you go it with knowledge, having been taught a few things about it and what's important beforehand, then you might just stand a chance.