Granted, I am arguing with you. So I suppose I should continue to do so.
FYI (I am guessing that stands for "for your information"): A despotism is a VERY right wing government, you know, the kind you said you supported so strongly. So while you may not believe in despotism, you are not its "exact opposite", you are merely a fairly different version of radical right-winger.
However, it is interesting to finally meet someone who is at the bottom-right of the political spectrum. I suppose I would side with you over someone at the top-right, but I still disagree strongly with you. (Left and right are for left- and right-wing. Top is totalitarian; bottom is anarchist. I am at the bottom-left.)
And my comment about you needing my approval to be who you are was in sarcasm to YOUR signature. If you truly did require approval to be who you are; you would have a very difficult time existing at all.
Also, perhaps we should start a separate thread if this debate continues, to save clogging up this thread instead.