As far as gear, sure-I didn't say that wasn't the case. I just stated he didn't have on "traveling gear." I always look at gear before I hit someone, because it gives the best clues as to what spec they are. He was wearing his "A" game wonder suit.
And the era's of leadership, no-you arent responsible for their actions. But you do bare the burden of them. If its any consolation-your my favorite of the 3 leaders.
As for your terms:
1-it isnt a term as it exists now.
2-any term that is a rule is a rule we had to police SSF from breaking and abide by ourselves. Not a good history on rules with your federation.
3-same as 2.
You left out another key part, you want to still attack our forts.
We don't have people regularly farming your workers, but you do. Yes-we will hit your workers given the situation...but for many of your town-thats all they hit.
I've said publicly, I've said privately, and I stand by my original statements, if SSF wants peace, you will get it by your actions, not by demanding any sort of terms.
My wifes non-fighting adventurer scores 3-5 hits a day from your towns, yet Elchivato is your only player with guts to attack me.
I certainly don't have the say for whether it happens or not. Personally, I have no interest in it because the last time it existed, it didn't go so well.