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I've been reluctant to post this for fear of ridicule, but I thought about it and said 'oh Hell what could it hurt?' Well.....here is what I would look for.
A man who is Catholic (or at least respectful of my beliefs!) Goth, interested in having a family/loves kids, is an intellectual/nerd/gamer/history buff who is not threatened by the fact that I am mildly intersexed, have a gender identity disorder and wear male attire. Someone with whom I can listen to anything from baroque opera to techno or Neue Deustche Harte and not become bored. Someone who makes you wonder if his eccentric though charmingly old-fashioned speech and mannerisms resulted from brain-swapping with guys from previous centuries.....yet can kick back and be as casual as they come. Someone who is secure enough in his masculinity to happily play with any children we have, even if they're playing a game with dolls, but have a genuinely great time and let me be the one to comfort him as much as he comforts me. Someone who wouldn't give a damn whether or not I looked or sounded the same as I did when we met - who would wake up next to me at eighty-five, say "You're beautiful!" and mean it with as much sincerety and passion as he did the first time he said it.
I will only court a virgin – please note that if they have been raped or molested, they are still a virgin in my book, unless they have engaged in any form of consensual intercourse since then. Before anyone starts screaming at me, know that I understand there are many good men who have made errors in judgment during past relationships; I’m not faulting them for it. However, I cannot risk compromising my health and quite frankly, the idea of marrying a man who has already been physically intimate with someone else is not appealing at all.
I love men who are tall (5’11 – 6’4!) pale, lean but not skinny, wear glasses, have high cheekbones, naturally long, black, wavy hair and are predominantly Cherokee/Irish,…..I'm not Native American myself but there’s something about men with that particular mix I am attracted to. O_O
If he can speak in Irish Gaelic, German, Cherokee or Latin…..yay! Those are my favorite languages to hear! If he knew two or three of those I would be a puddle of bespectacled mush XD
Scars are attractive. Perfect beauty is over-rated!
A man who is Catholic (or at least respectful of my beliefs!) Goth, interested in having a family/loves kids, is an intellectual/nerd/gamer/history buff who is not threatened by the fact that I am mildly intersexed, have a gender identity disorder and wear male attire. Someone with whom I can listen to anything from baroque opera to techno or Neue Deustche Harte and not become bored. Someone who makes you wonder if his eccentric though charmingly old-fashioned speech and mannerisms resulted from brain-swapping with guys from previous centuries.....yet can kick back and be as casual as they come. Someone who is secure enough in his masculinity to happily play with any children we have, even if they're playing a game with dolls, but have a genuinely great time and let me be the one to comfort him as much as he comforts me. Someone who wouldn't give a damn whether or not I looked or sounded the same as I did when we met - who would wake up next to me at eighty-five, say "You're beautiful!" and mean it with as much sincerety and passion as he did the first time he said it.
I will only court a virgin – please note that if they have been raped or molested, they are still a virgin in my book, unless they have engaged in any form of consensual intercourse since then. Before anyone starts screaming at me, know that I understand there are many good men who have made errors in judgment during past relationships; I’m not faulting them for it. However, I cannot risk compromising my health and quite frankly, the idea of marrying a man who has already been physically intimate with someone else is not appealing at all.
I love men who are tall (5’11 – 6’4!) pale, lean but not skinny, wear glasses, have high cheekbones, naturally long, black, wavy hair and are predominantly Cherokee/Irish,…..I'm not Native American myself but there’s something about men with that particular mix I am attracted to. O_O
If he can speak in Irish Gaelic, German, Cherokee or Latin…..yay! Those are my favorite languages to hear! If he knew two or three of those I would be a puddle of bespectacled mush XD
Scars are attractive. Perfect beauty is over-rated!
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