There are alot of spoiled brats out there that just expect things to be handed to them without working for it,but beating the snot out of your kids is wrong and can damage them for life in many ways.What the majority of the problem is,households with out a father figure to lay down the law,being consistant.without consistantsy kids wont take us seriously but violence against children will either make them violent or send the messege that someone being violent towards you is ok,and its not.boys that see or are treated with violence in the home usually grow up to be violent,girls that see or are treated with violence grow up to be violent or worse think its ok to stay in a relationship where their partner is violent towards them.its a vicious cycle that people repeat and its very sad that we teach our kids this and live that way
i think blaming movies and video games is a cop out,just like drugging hyper kids with meds.parents want to blame something other then themselves.they dont want to take responsibility for their neglect,inconsistantsy or abuse of their children. i am sick to death of hearing parents say stuff like 'oh i have to work 12 hours a day,sorry but i have to make the money'thats what is destroying the family unit.parents at work too much,and not with their family enough.fathers killing themselves to take care of their familys,fighting with there wives as if they are to blame and then giving up and starting new somewhere else,fooling themselves into thinking it wont happen again the same way because we make the same mistakes over and over.we are all perfectly aware of why everything is so expensive to the point we have to kill ourselves to buy the things we need let alone want
I agree with plundersilver